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Understanding the Adolescent Mental Health Crisis - A Dive into the Data and Hope for Change

Hope for the global teen mental health crisis: Dartmouth College is hosting a groundbreaking three-day symposium that underscores how seriously the global community is taking youth mental health. "A Global Turning Point: Why Youth Well-Being Is in Crisis—and What We Must Do About It" will bring together dozens of leading international scholars, physicians, advocates, experts, and policymakers from around the world, including six former U.S. Surgeons General.

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Why Kindness Matters. It’s A Protective Factor for Mental & Physical Health

Kindness doesn't just make the world slightly better for others. It measurably improves our physical and mental health, reduces our stress reactivity, provides our children with concrete evidence that they have power to create good in the world, creates a ripple effect that touches givers, receivers, and observers alike, and literally retrains our brains to notice positive interactions instead of only threats and problems.

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Curate Their Content!

The cultural climate and our own adverse experiences (like divorce or a loss of a job) has an impact on adults, but children, especially neurodivergent children, are particularly vulnerable to the anxiety and confusion it creates. Kids are incredibly sensitive to their environment, so to the best you can, be mindful of what they are exposed to, and have age-appropriate conversations with them to help them process and understand

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Why Teens Struggle with Motivation: A Therapeutic Approach to Lasting Change

If your teen seems to lack motivation, change the focus from "how can we make you change" to "what do you actually want for your life?"

Lasting motivation doesn't come from consequences or rewards. It comes from understanding what matters and choosing to act in alignment with those values, even when it's hard.

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The Glass Siblings: The Hidden Heroes in Our Families

When a family comes to me sharing the story of their child who is struggling, I also ask, "And, how is this impacting you, their parents, your marriage, and especially their siblings?"

As a clinical social worker trained in family systems, I look at the health of the entire family system. When one child struggles, requiring more of their parents' attention and emotional energy, the siblings will be impacted. It's not a matter of if – it's a matter of how.

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The Journey of The Mama Bear

Whether your child needs the intensive support described in Autism Out Loud or different kinds of help along their journey, the mama bear instinct remains the same: fierce, protective, and willing to do whatever it takes.

Trust your mama bear heart. It knows the way. And remember – you are not alone in this. Reach out to jennifer@teamcrossbridge.com

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Trusting your Child’s School or Program Requires Positive Intensions, Repair, & Grace

Trusting a school or therapeutic program with your child can be unnerving. You’re asking strangers to care for and understand your most cared for human.

But a trusting partnership among the adults is really the only way that our kids have the chance to grow and transform in their new environment.

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Protecting Your Child's Special Education Rights: What Parents Need to Know Now

If you've a child with special needs, you've likely been following the news about proposed changes to federal education oversight and funding. I won't lie - it's concerning. The potential downsizing of the Department of Education, shifting oversight responsibilities, and reduced federal enforcement could impact the services our kids depend on.

But here's what we want you to remember: your child still has rights, and you still have power as their advocate. The federal laws that protect students with disabilities - IDEA, Section 504, and the ADA - are still in place. What's changing is how they might be enforced and funded. We aim to keep you informed.

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School Avoidance or Refusal - What Parents Can Do!

School avoidance or refusal has always been a thing, but ever since the pandemic, during which kids were schooled online, and they fell behind academically and didn’t learn social skills that come with engaging with peers, it’s become more pervasive. School refusal can feel overwhelming, but it's important to remember that children do recover from this. With the right support, understanding, and interventions, kids can learn to manage their anxiety and return to successful school attendance.

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What to Do When Your Teen Is Self-Harming … A Parent's Guide

Is Your Teen Self-Harming?A Parent's Guide

Finding out your teenager is hurting themselves is devastating. Whether you discovered cuts, found hidden blades, or they told you themselves, you're likely feeling shock, fear, and confusion. Know that you're not alone – about 15-20% of teens engage in some form of self-harm.

When parents call me or Rebekah and say that their child is struggling with their mental health, one of the first questions we ask is “Are they self-harming?” It’s so very common. But the good news, is that once we get these kids help and they learn better coping skills, most often stop the behavior all-together.

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