If you've a child with special needs, you've likely been following the news about proposed changes to federal education oversight and funding. I won't lie - it's concerning. The potential downsizing of the Department of Education, shifting oversight responsibilities, and reduced federal enforcement could impact the services our kids depend on.

But here's what we want you to remember: your child still has rights, and you still have power as their advocate. The federal laws that protect students with disabilities - IDEA, Section 504, and the ADA - are still in place. What's changing is how they might be enforced and funded. We aim to keep you informed.

School avoidance or refusal has always been a thing, but ever since the pandemic, during which kids were schooled online, and they fell behind academically and didn’t learn social skills that come with engaging with peers, it’s become more pervasive. School refusal can feel overwhelming, but it's important to remember that children do recover from this. With the right support, understanding, and interventions, kids can learn to manage their anxiety and return to successful school attendance.

When your child is struggling with mental health issues, substance abuse, or behavioral challenges, figuring out the right level of care can feel overwhelming. You're facing a maze of acronyms - PHP, IOP, RTC, TBS - and wondering what each one means and which might be right for your child.

Understanding these different levels of care is crucial because the right fit can make all the difference in your child's recovery journey. Here's a breakdown of the main treatment options, from most to least intensive.

Simple Communication Tips for Parents

Many parents feel less truly connected with their kids, despite their 24/7 texting or reading one another’s social media posts. Real connection requires intentional efforts to communicate and genuine listening. Follow the tips in this blog.

Is Your Teen Self-Harming?A Parent's Guide

Finding out your teenager is hurting themselves is devastating. Whether you discovered cuts, found hidden blades, or they told you themselves, you're likely feeling shock, fear, and confusion. Know that you're not alone – about 15-20% of teens engage in some form of self-harm.

When parents call me or Rebekah and say that their child is struggling with their mental health, one of the first questions we ask is “Are they self-harming?” It’s so very common. But the good news, is that once we get these kids help and they learn better coping skills, most often stop the behavior all-together.

Therapeutic Educational Consultant vs. Educational Consultant: What's the Difference?

Understanding which type of support your family needs

If you're reading this, you're likely seeking support for your child's educational or mental health journey. This can be an overwhelming and emotional time, and understanding the difference between types of educational consultants is an important first step in finding the right help for your family.

What is a Therapeutic Educational Consultant?

A therapeutic educational consultant provides individuals and families with curated, well-matched therapeutic (and academic) options for emotional, behavioral, academic and/or relational issues. Consultants travel frequently to ensure they maintain a real-time, firsthand understanding of school & program components.  Reputable therapeutic consultants are independent, meaning they do not accept or receive referral fees or any compensation from programs or schools for recommending.

Why seeking residential treatment for your child takes courage …

I've been with many parents at the moment they realize their child needs more support than they can provide at home. Most have exhausted faces, others have trembling hands, but nearly all begin to cry when they say: "We can't do this alone anymore."

How meaningful adult-student relationships create lasting impact—in boarding schools and beyond

When I get a call from a parent of a young adult who is anxious, depressed and generally “stuck” … and their worried about their ability to launch independently, I may recommend wilderness therapy.

When Your Child Isn't Safe: A Parent's Guide to Making the Hardest Decision

When I first suggest boarding school to parents, many of them balk at the idea, concerned about “sending their child away.” As a parent, I get that. AND - I also see all the ways that boarding school creates double the joy and double the opportunity for students. It deepens your bench – providing a broad community of adults who offer wisdom and care to your child.

When fear becomes your shadow - learning to find hope within the darkness.

Helping our youth navigate uncertain times. My advice to my own children and to the young adults with whom I work is consistent: in times of uncertainty, anchor yourself to what you value and find meaningful.

Spring is in the air - with a reminder for renewal, growth, and self-care. This blog for parents of loved ones with mental health and substance use challenges focuses on the paradox of detachment and service to others.